Written by Jane Scupham, principal
While I was observing a middle school science class, I heard Mrs. Rock mention to the students the Sunday rituals that happened in her childhood home. She talked about the family piling into the car to go to Mass together and having pancakes made by dad when they returned home. It was obvious from Mrs. Rock’s expression that these were happy, comforting memories.
Rites and rituals are among the gifts that make our Catholic faith very rich and meaningful. Years after children have grown and moved out of the house, they recall the times that their family prayed together. They remember going to Sunday Mass with the entire family. As parents, you have a wonderful opportunity and responsibility to influence and strengthen your child’s practice of the faith.
Family observance of the holy season of Lent is a perfect opportunity to teach your children the importance of faith in their lives. Consider saying the rosary together during Lent. Or, you may decide to go to church on Fridays for the Stations of the Cross. Maybe you can talk with your children about what you can do as a family during Lent to prepare for the glorious season of Easter.
Children are constantly watching and learning from the adults in their lives. The practice of your faith is a visible sign to your children of your love for God and all of the gifts you have been given. If children are surrounded by people who try to live out their faith on a daily basis, in big ways and small, they will be inspired to do the same. The power of example is strong. One of the greatest gifts you can give your children is to model a faithfilled and hope-filled Christian life. The benefits of that gift will protect and sustain your children throughout their lives. What greater gift could you possibly give?